Parenting Advice: Relationship advice of mother and child Part 2

“The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.”

Mother makes the better place for kids to live. Mother stands by guarding the kids by storm or rain. Mother heals the world for the kids. Of all the rights of women, being mother is greatest.

“Nobody knows of the work it makes
To keep the home together.
Nobody knows of the steps it takes,
Nobody knows-but Mother.”

Parenting Advice: Communication, this means Listening

Communication is the bridge for good and healthy relationship between moms and their kids. Communication is very important as children learn from moms and not only this even as moms learn from their children. Most important thing in communication for moms is to listen. At times moms are in hurry to speak and also less interested in listening. Its not easy for a mom to listen in a busied life nonetheless listening is the most important. Make time to listen as what your kid has to say and this may be a precious moment for your kid and that will be turned into his precious memory.

“They joys of motherhood are never fully experienced until the children are in bed.”

Parenting Advice: Elements of consistency

Moms keep the element of consistent with her children as from this they learn to keep trust. Whatever you must say or your statement it is important to follow through with that. This can be setting up boundary for a child as where he can go, if its curfews, or even on friends or on a special time and dates set aside for them. Consistency is an element that should be in everyday thing and this will go on through life of kids. The trust boundaries set for them is important as children grow and have plans of their own. Still it is important for moms to keep up with communication and still listen to their children.

Parenting Advice: Realize they have grown up

No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged children for signs of improvement.
– Florida Scott-Maxwell

The needs differ in children as they grow and change. Its important for moms to recognize their changes and even their needs and do it with an open mind and this needs lot of understanding. Also adding of tough love sometimes is a hard thing for moms but a necessity and much-needed thing in children’s lives.
“Is my mother my friend? I would have to say, first of all she is my Mother, with a capital ‘M’; she’s something sacred to me. I love her dearly…yes, she is also a good friend, someone I can talk openly with if I want to.”
– Sophia Loren

Relationship of mom and kids is the most beautiful one. Its journey of mom holding her kid for the first time and as time foes by it is him holding her hand when she is frail.

What the mother sings the cradle goes all the way down to the coffin.
– Henry Ward Beecher

Read More at : Parenting Advice Part I and Parenting Advice Part III

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